SECRETS AND HABITS OF HAPPY COUPLES
What are the Secrets of Happy Couples?
Being in a relationship is not easy and to find equilibrium is even more difficult, a relationship requires time, patience and affection, a lot of affection… A lot of different researches have been made to discover which are the habits for a happy relation… They are of course habits; a happy couple does and after digging on the internet I arrive at the best habits I could find…
A happy couple, avoid giving jealousy…
When you have a solid relationship, and you receive enough attention you don’t feel the necessity look to get attention, making your partner jealous.
They don’t check the phone of the partner…
Having the urge to check your partner’s phone is a sign you don’t trust him or her, and once you start everything is going to get worst, and every possible message can lead to a fight.
They fight for each other…
Every healthy couple fights for each other and they make an effort every day, and more importantly, they are grateful to have that particular person on their side.
They don’t compare the relation with the old ones…
When you start comparing things, you will always arrive at the winner and a looser. Every relationship is different and what makes this individual might be no so important in the old relation. The strong couple centers each other in their relationship they have instead of looking backward…
Strong couples don’t put the relationship status on Facebook…
If you use your social network to validate your relationship, maybe you are not mature enough to have a relationship.
They don’t insist on spending the whole day together…
Strong coupling understands how important it is to have independence and respect for each other’s time.
For me the most important…
Strong couples don’t try to change the partner, strong couples understand and respect the way of their partners, and they don’t try to change them but to accept them and to embrace them.
They don’t compete with each other…
When you have a challenge, both fight and grow, but when you compete with your partner it will always lead to a looser and to the winner.
They don’t put sugar on the truth…
When a couple is stable, it means they built together that solid base, and that means being honest with each other, even if one of them doesn’t want to hear the truth.
They accept each other differences…
It is important to recognize your partner’s difference, I have always thought that the more different your partner is, it will expand your horizons, and it will make you see things you don’t see by yourself.
They go to bed together…
It sounds simple but go to bed at the same time as your partner creates a special bond between each other.
They don’t compare their relationships with others…
It doesn’t exist just one way to love someone, when you compare your relationship with others, it will always come moments when you receive less or more, the strong couple just centers their selves in their own relationship, and they don’t see what others have.
